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Monday, January 21, 2013

Obviously I'm Naming This: "Lets Talk About Sex"

Preface: I am not a professional, this is just my perception based on my experiences. Also, I will not be PC, Just letting you know:)
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There is no real reason, as to why we shy away about talking about sex.
Everyone is always quick to say how personal it is, but no one seems to notice how selfish it is to be tightlipped about it. Now let's be clear, there is a difference between talking tactlessly and irresponsibly about sex, and simply being open and transparent about your experiences. I believe everyone, and I do mean everyone is called to live out the latter.

Here's why:

1.) We have a responsibility to the younger generations. No matter how old you are, there is someone younger. They will have questions, and you just may be the person they come to. Do you really want to regurgitate what was spoon-fed to you? Maybe you were given great advice, but maybe you weren't. We can't just teach people to lock it up until their married, we have to invest, advise and truly Guide.

2.)IMO: The first person you talk openly about sex and all that it entails should not be your partner. Ideally, it would be your parents, when you were 14, but sometimes that's just not possible, and other times it simply too late, we've now learned from experience. Even so, it is never to late to glean from the wise. There should be one human alive that you can fearlessly and shamelessly be open about your sexuality. 

3.)Open Dialogue with decrease sexual perversions(whatever that means to you). When you have someone you can openly talk to without fear of judgement, you won't be so quick to experiment, in anyway. Nor will you hide urges that can later manifest into something destructive.

All I'm saying is: Talk openly and responsibly. We can't progress if everyone is a prude.

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2 comments:

  1. Can I just applaud you for posting this! In my experience, sex has always been a topic brushed under the rug especially in church settings. Much of my generation grew up having to learn all about sex in school, from their teachers. And I'm not saying there's anything wrong with sex education in schools, but as Christians, if we're hoping to instill a certain level of morality and a idea of purity into our kids, they need to hear about it from us (the church). It's a responsibility that we take all too lightly until it's too late.

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    1. Thank You Shaina.
      I am glad my message was made clear.

      In church we are taught: "lock it up until we are married" in Schools we are taught to "do what fees right". neither is solid, nor helpful advice.

      Thanks for your feedback!

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      Jesi Rae

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